Palatable fruit : The 7 habits of highly effective people
June 4th, 2008 byThis is my second time to read throughout this great book, but it actually impacted on my soul further more than the first time when I just casted so valuable book in my washroom. So stupid, wasn't it?
During the recent periods of time, I come into several bad true examples around me which can be defined the adverse stuff against all of the policies advocated in this book. As a result, terrible consequences happened, they have to pay the bitter price for their unreasonable behaviors. Living on the world, nobody can get rid of the necessary of dealing with the relationship with your spouse, friends, colleagues, clients and so on. When growing up, coming into the scoiety, everyboday also has to shoulder various roles as well as responsibilities.
In China, there's an very ancient probverb : Character dominates Fate. Though it's not completely right in the modern society. But in some sense, character is crucial terribly for making decision, communication and building relationships. How to conquer the untangible shadow enemy? No people or power compel you to fulfill the change, the unique approach is you aware consciously and chemical action takes place spontaneously. You ought to shpe up with Inside-Out congruence, to keep highly integrity between deep value and behaviors. For achieving this, this book comes up with three policies to cultivate efficient habits, essentially pursue you to provide abstract leadership and pragmatic manament to yourself, build up the principles centered value and circle of the influence.
Spreading to wider range and more importantly,this book also contributes three suggestions for public relationship, likewise family, marriage, friends and partners. The premise is you have to be highly integrated with your thinking and behaviors and be proactive. To win the relationship and to be credible, you should be sincere and not faked, you should deliver value to them, listen their needs and concerns, work and live well with them. More significantly, transfering all of these to your posterity with your principles in place. More siganificantly, transfering all of these to your posterity is no other than the biggest treasure and bequest, which will propel them to struggle for their splendid life.
This book also gives the key of “Alibaba's treasure” in the last chapter. Please move this treasure to our lives and don't forget to recap it time by time.